Complaint handling tone (calm, controlled)
When a client is unhappy, the main risks are sounding defensive, over-reassuring, or implying outcomes. Use a calm structure that acknowledges, clarifies, and offers a next step without certainty.
3-step structure
1) Acknowledge (neutral)
2) Clarify (what happened / what they noticed)
3) Next step (review point / booking / update request)
Phrases to avoid
• “That’s impossible”
• “Don’t worry, it will be fine”
• “This always happens”
• “You must have done something wrong”
Example wording
• “Thanks for letting me know — I understand this feels frustrating.”
• “Could you share what you noticed and when it started, so I can review?”
• “If you’d like, we can arrange a check-in to go through the next step calmly.”
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